Sorry this is certainly way too long.
He actually is just a great man (or more i believe). He’s handsome, funny, spontaneous, we’ve the interests that are same interests. We now have a 12 yr old (their action son) and a 2 yr old. We have constantly discussed being single mates and each year together it offers believed like that.
Once or twice into the past we caught him on dating places, locate a bill or re-occurring charge on the charge card for a website. We might talk about any of it in which he would say he just did that because that is where the “better” porn ended up being. Up until 2 yrs ago we have constantly had an extremely exciting and sex that is fun too. Perhaps maybe not being fully a lover that is porn but understanding he’s a person and it also appears each of them look it. We accepted their response, hesitantly. As time went on we never found anything dubious therefore it all appeared to disappear completely.
Well following the birth of our two yr old with my hormones, an infant, a 10 yr old, a 50 hour week job. The intercourse went from 2-3 times per week to once per week. We knew this isn’t the most effective for him but he never ever stated a term, acted unhappy, or ever tried for lots more. And so I “assumed” all had been well. We also chatted to him as soon as he said it was no big deal.